Sorry. But I’m more than a body. I’m more than something for you to jack off to. I’m more than a joke, more than a meme.
For those that were not aware a “send nudes” sign was put up in a suite in the Quads a few days ago. There have been responses from other suites: “What’s your number?” and “Respect women.” Which have led to the original suite putting up an email address and justifying the sign by saying that they replaced the exclamation point with a question mark. That does not make the sign better, the message is still the same.
The sign “send nudes” is more than just a meme. The message says to whoever it is sent to that they are only wanted for their body, and that they are only seen for their body. The said person is brought down to their flesh, something they have no control over, and are told that it is because of this that they are desirable and only this. This is a lie. We are all more than our bodies. Some may prefer this method of communication. But for a college campus this is not appropriate.
As an RA I am constantly worried that everyone on campus feels safe. Seeing the sign at first I laughed, from my privilege of never having to deal with this. But then the message stayed there, and I started to think about what this meant to anyone who was less fortunate than I. It can be seen as a blatant sign of our patriarchal society, and the scary part is that (since this article has been written) the sign is still up.